Try, Try, Try, Try Again!

A few years ago, while working at the National American Miss Maryland Pageant, I encountered one of the bravest young people I have ever met.

It was during the Personal Introduction portion of the competition, and this girl comes up to deliver her personal introduction, she was either a Teen or Jr. Teen.  Now keep in mind public speaking is the #1 fear among Americans, above death, spider and even snakes, public speaking is #1.  So the fact that these kids are up there is an accomplishment all of its own.  Anyways, so you probably know, all you have to say is your name, hometown and something about yourself, like what you ambition is.  This young lady starts her personal intro, “Hi my name is Suzy..” and she freezes.  Now I have seen this before and more often than not they get so flustered they simple say “thank you” and walk off the stage, but not this girl.  She recollected herself and started again, “Hi my name is Suzy from Baltimore…”  and she freezes again.  At this point in time the audience is frozen and you could hear the faintest sound.  But like the champ that she is, she started over, and again after that, four times it took this young lady to get through her personal intro!

When she finally made it though her personal intro, you have never heard a crowd cheer so loud, everyone one in the ballroom was glowing with pride for this girl.  After the event there was a line of people that wanted to meet her and tell her how awesome of a job that she did!  The support from her friends, families, strangers, and fellow competitors was overwhelming. 

It was another reminder that even if we don’t get it right the first time, we should always try our best and see things through to completion.  This girl was an instant winner as a result of her perseverance! 

~Matt

Miss Tennessee Jr. Teen Debates Tennessee Legislature!

The Debate ’08 Youth Forum was held in Nashville on Tuesday, October 7, 2008. Eight 4-H members from across the state, including the 2008 National American Miss Tennessee Jr. Teen, Jaclyn Torento, gathered at Legislative Plaza in Nashville for a state wide youth forum and debate, to have their unique voices and concerns heard. They discussed issues concerning youth including, childhood disease, military service, and education. The panel was made up of members of the Tennessee Commission on Children and Youth.

I am so proud of all the hard work that Jaclyn is doing in her community and state. 

Have a great weekend!

~Matt

Susan G. Komen Walk For The Cure and National American Miss

This past fall several of the National American Miss Oregon queens took part in the Susan G. Komen walk for the cure.  I am so proud of these kids!  In a time when none of us have free time, these outstanding young people took time to contribute, to give back, to do something for someone else.

I encourge you to take this time to find something you are passionate about.  A cause that you can get behind, something that is near and dear to your heart.  Maybe its autism awareness, maybe its the make-a-wish foundation.  Whatever it is, get involved, make a difference. 

 A friend reminded me of a quote this week that always makes me pause and think.  “You must be the change that you wish to see in the world.”  ~Gandhi.

Matt



The Perfect Pageant Dress!

As pageant season approaches, I continually get asked what kind of dress should we wear for the pageant.  My answer is always the same.  As long as it is within the rules and guidelines, it doesn’t really matter.  When I prep the judges for each event at pageant weekend, I go over the exact same information that each contestant and their family receives.  These details are spelled out on page 10 of your magazine #1.  I tell the judges it’s not about the dress on the girl, it’s the girl in the dress.  In my opinion a dress can only hurt a contestant’s score when its not within the rules set forth in the material.  When the judges look at each contestant the only weight the dress carries is whether or not it is within the rules. 

Best time to buy a dress.   The best time to buy a dress is the late spring, sometime after all of your area schools have had their proms.  The department stores and local shops will start to mark down their stock to move what’s left of their inventory.  If you do go shopping for a new dress, find the one that compliments your personality. The more confident you feel in the dress, the more confident you will be on stage in the spot light!

Now keep in mind you do not have to go out and buy a new dress.  Most people already have a dress that they can wear for the pageant.  For the younger ones, if she has ever been a flower girl, most of those dresses will work fine.  For the teens, if you have a prom or homecoming dress, those usually work fine too.

My best advice is don’t stress about it.  In the grand scheme of things the dress matters very little!


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Your Input Is Welcomed!

Hey everyone.  My goal increating this blog is not only create a forum for people to talk about all things NAM, but also a chance for you to interact with me in an informal environment.  If you have any questions, please post them!  If you want to tell me about your NAM experience, please post it!  If you have any suggestions for me, please post them!  Do you see a theme starting here…. 🙂  I look forward to hearing from you. 

Thanks, Matt