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Susan G. Komen Walk For The Cure and National American Miss

This past fall several of the National American Miss Oregon queens took part in the Susan G. Komen walk for the cure.  I am so proud of these kids!  In a time when none of us have free time, these outstanding young people took time to contribute, to give back, to do something for someone else.

I encourge you to take this time to find something you are passionate about.  A cause that you can get behind, something that is near and dear to your heart.  Maybe its autism awareness, maybe its the make-a-wish foundation.  Whatever it is, get involved, make a difference. 

 A friend reminded me of a quote this week that always makes me pause and think.  “You must be the change that you wish to see in the world.”  ~Gandhi.

Matt



Fire Batons at a Pageant!

A lot of kids in our program choose to participate the optional contests.  Every year its so great to see them display their talents, skills and abilities on stage.  The variety of talents I have seen over the years is astounding.  Every time I think I have seen it all, something surprises me.  One year we had a girl do turkey calling, this year in Tennessee we had a girl skateboard on stage!

Often I am asked, do the optional contests have anything to do with who wins the overall pageant.  The answer is NO.  As the state director part of my job is to seat 2 separate panels of judges, one for the optionals and one for the overall pageant.  The overall judges aren’t allowed in the ballroom during the optional contests, the judging is complete after the representation of the formal wear during the final show before we announce who won the optionals, they don’t even get to see a program book until after the pageant.  I go to great lengths to make sure all the judges are impartial and unbiased. 

Sometimes a young lady who does well in the optionals also does well in the pageant.   This prompts the occasional inquiry.  The simple situation is that kids that participate in alot of optionals tend to be more comfortable on stage.  Maybe they have taken dance lessons for years, or have been in band for a while.  As I mentioned in previous blogs, this isn’t a beauty pageant.  The more confident and comfortable a contestant is on stage, the more the judges are going to see that.  They are looking for the young ladywho is self-aware, proud of who she is, they are looking for the representative for their state. 

Years ago while I was working as the sound tech at the Washington State Pageant a young lady approached the sound table and asked,  “Can I set my batons on fire for talent?”.  Of course for obvious safty reasons my response was, “no”.  So she appeals to the hotel and they gave her permission to.  So I was l like, “well, if they say it’s ok.”  So there I am on the side of the stage with a fire extinguisher just in case, God forbid, something goes wrong, I’m prepared.  I lean over and I ask her, “so how long have you been twriling fire batons?”  Her response is one that still echos in my ears, “this is only my second time setting them on fire!”  Holy smokes, sound the alarms……..  Luckily, nothing went wrong and everyone made it out alive.  I don’t know if there’s a nugget of wisdom in there or not, but its a fun story none the less. 

Have a great day.

Matt




The Perfect Pageant Dress!

As pageant season approaches, I continually get asked what kind of dress should we wear for the pageant.  My answer is always the same.  As long as it is within the rules and guidelines, it doesn’t really matter.  When I prep the judges for each event at pageant weekend, I go over the exact same information that each contestant and their family receives.  These details are spelled out on page 10 of your magazine #1.  I tell the judges it’s not about the dress on the girl, it’s the girl in the dress.  In my opinion a dress can only hurt a contestant’s score when its not within the rules set forth in the material.  When the judges look at each contestant the only weight the dress carries is whether or not it is within the rules. 

Best time to buy a dress.   The best time to buy a dress is the late spring, sometime after all of your area schools have had their proms.  The department stores and local shops will start to mark down their stock to move what’s left of their inventory.  If you do go shopping for a new dress, find the one that compliments your personality. The more confident you feel in the dress, the more confident you will be on stage in the spot light!

Now keep in mind you do not have to go out and buy a new dress.  Most people already have a dress that they can wear for the pageant.  For the younger ones, if she has ever been a flower girl, most of those dresses will work fine.  For the teens, if you have a prom or homecoming dress, those usually work fine too.

My best advice is don’t stress about it.  In the grand scheme of things the dress matters very little!


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It Gets Better Everyday.

Yesterday in my blog I talked about the great comments that I get about the pageant from parents and contestants.  As part of my role as the state director I consider it my responsibility to inspire these kids to strive to be their best, to set goals, and be proud of who they are, just the way they are.  Every pageant weekend I go into with this mind set, but more often I find myself being the inspired, not the inspirer. 

A couple of years ago in Kentucky we had a young lady participate who had cerebral palsy.  She chose to compete in the optional spokesmodel competition.  She delivered one of the most powerful and touching speeched I have ever heard.  Now keep in mind, simply get on stage alone is a feat of heroism all on its own, but as she spoke she reached every heart in the room.  She talked about how she was “abled” and not “disabled”; what an amazing outlook on life!  It’s so often when I find myself disappointed but something small and meaningless, imagine suffering from this disease like this little girl, and in the mist of it all knowing that her possibilities are limitless.

Even today I was inspired.  I got a call from a mom who just wanted to call and tell me what was going on in her daughter’s life.  During our conversation she told me about something that her daughter did at the state pageant that made her proud to be her mother.

For those of you who have been to one of my state pageants you will remember that as the girls come out of interviews, all the parents (whether it’s their child or not) cheer for them as they are escorted into the parent waiting room.  Well this particular 15 year old, who’s name was about 2/3 of the way through the interview noticed that as she came in the crowd of parents had dwindled down to just those who where still waiting for thier child.  This contestant chose to stay in the waiting room to cheer for every single last one of the contestants who came out of interviews.  Her mom told me that she wanted every contest to have the experience of hearing people cheer for her as she completed her interview…….wow! 

Always remember, no matter how old or young you are, you have the chance to inspire!

~Matt

Pageant Director Tells All! Why I Love My Job.

When I meet new people, they often ask, “What do you do?”  With a grin, I reply “I’m a pageant director!”  That always prompts them ask follow up questions and gives me the opportunity to tell them about our organization. 

One of my favorite parts of being a director are the letters that I get after the pageant from parents and contestants.  I literally have a file drawer full of them!  I get the sweetest letters telling me how the pageant experience has impacted their lives.  They talk to me about the confidence they have gained, the friends they made, how they were shy before and now have come out of their shell.  I am often told that now they aren’t scared to try new things like running for student government, trying out for a team, that through the pageant they have gained that self-esteem to be able to step out and be a leader among their peers.  The letters are truly inspirational. 

One letter I got about a year ago was from the sweetest little girl.  As a project for school they had to write a thank you letter to someone other than a family member, and she picked me!  OK, first of all, how cool is it a an educator is teaching kids not only math, science and reading, but also to be thankful and grateful, that is so cool in my opinion.  But most of how, how touched do you think I was that this little girl chose me to single out and say thank you to!  I don’t care how bad of a day you are having, something like that puts a smile on your face.  In this letter, she simply stated that she was so thankful for all the pageant had done for her, the confidence, the self-esteem, the friends, it truly was a beautiful letter.

My joy of this job comes from knowing that I am making a difference!  I think as human beings we are all searching for purpose, and I have found mine.  Through this program I have the opportunity to meet the most amazing kids and their families and play a role in their future. 

To all of you, thank you for giving me a chance to be part of you lives, I have truly been blessed. 

Matt

Your Input Is Welcomed!

Hey everyone.  My goal increating this blog is not only create a forum for people to talk about all things NAM, but also a chance for you to interact with me in an informal environment.  If you have any questions, please post them!  If you want to tell me about your NAM experience, please post it!  If you have any suggestions for me, please post them!  Do you see a theme starting here…. 🙂  I look forward to hearing from you. 

Thanks, Matt

Pageant Director Tells All! How I Got Started In Pageants

So one of the questions I get the most is, “how did you get involved in pageants?”  Well here’s the answer.  I grew up in Hagerstown, Indiana.  When I was 13 years old I started working for a DJ company call Heart Breaker Video Disc Jockeys.  When I first started I was just a DJ helper at school dances, wedding receptions, stuff like that.  As I got older I started working as an actual DJ for the company and worked for them all through high school and college.  Well, in 1997 the DJ company gets a call from Steve Mayes, the Indiana pageant director at the time.  He was at the Indiana pageant and wanted someone to come and do some lighting at the pageant.  He literally found us in the yellow pages! 

By this time I was one of the most experienced DJ’s in the company, so the owner, his son (Jason Black) and I went to the Indiana pageant to put up some fun lights.  We had no idea what to expect.  But as soon as I met Steve and Kathleen I immediately knew that this was a lot different than what I expected.  I was figuring it would be like what I hear about on TV about youth pageants, boy was I wrong.  I saw a staff that genuinely cared for the contestants, that had a goal far beyond giving out crowns, banners and trophies, they had a true purpose to see kids lives enriched for the better.  I immediately knew that this was a program that I wanted to be a part of.  After the Indiana pageant, I sat down with Steve and talked to him about working at some other events for him as a sound and light tech.  That summer, I traveled to the Missouri and Washington pageants.  The following year, I traveled to all the Mayes’ pageants doing the sound and lights.  It worked out great since I was in college, it was the perfect summer job, traveling the country, working with an amazing group of people and mostly importantly, impact lives.

After about 5 years traveling with the pageants I started to express interest that I wanted to get more involved and in 2003, while I was working as an algebra teacher, Steve contacted me and asked me if I would like to be a state director.  To say the least, I was more than honored that he would consider me.  I said yes and that year I directed my first pageant, Tennessee.  Then in 2005 they offered me Kentucky and South Carolina and then in 2008 I was offered Oregon and the rest is history.

National Pageant

The national pageant is 1 month away and I am so excited!  This is going to be the best one ever, I mean, hello, we’re giving away 5 Ford Mustangs.  The national pageant is always such a great event.  Every year I am blown away by you guys.  I am always so proud when I see people set goals and get involved in their communities.  I can wait to see you there!